We are … how shall I say this? Unusual around here.
- Our Founder and CEO is a reformed lawyer-turned-marketer-turned-serial-entrepreneur-turned-who-knows-what’s-next.
- Our COO runs our galaxy when he isn’t keeping our company running.
- Our CCO rocks hot pink hair and an unmistakable style.
- Our CFO has remade himself as a LinkedIn shock jock.
- Our CPO promotes a minimalist life with maximum heart.
I could go on.
Company meetings feature an eye-popping variety of hair colors, styles of dress, and tattoos of all shapes and sizes. Our hobbies range from geeky (please don’t get us started on Marvel comics movies) to traditional (ask Andrea about quilting or check in with Rebecca about what she’s knitting).
Pets? We have plenty of dogs and cats. Turtles, too. Horses of all sizes. A goat named Frankie.
And we speak multiple languages. There’s English (obviously), but also French, Italian, Polish, Portuguese, Punjabi, Romanian, Russian, Spanish, and Urdu.
That’s all to say … we’re kinda weird, you know? Diverse. We have personality.
Wait … you too?
I’m betting you’re a little quirky, too. Why else would you hang out with us?
There are plenty of websites that could teach you about using content marketing to build an online presence. But you’re here reading Copyblogger.
Let’s turn that around and think about your situation:
There are plenty of people who will resonate with your particular brand of quirkiness, too.
But only if you let it show. And that’s what today’s post is going to spell out how to do.
Seriously weird. And weirdly serious.
As Demian Farnworth loudly proclaimed in Conquer Content Shock with Illegitimate Ideas, and I talked about in Defy Convention or Be Forgotten, there are distinct business advantages to embracing your unique, quirky style.
Weirdness stands out. Weirdness is remembered. And weirdness — as long as you’re not insulting, degrading, or a train wreck — can make your brand seriously unforgettable.
But how do you find your unique writing voice? And once found, how do you go about expressing it?
That is the question. And here are my four succinct answers.
1. Say your words out loud, and then write them down
One way to pinpoint your quirky voice is to actually use your voice when you write.
You can do this several ways:
- You can say what you’re thinking out loud and write it down exactly the way it comes out of your mouth.
- You can use a voice-to-text system that captures your speech and turns it into words that you edit later.
- You can record your thoughts into your phone and transcribe the phrases you use when talking about your topic.
As you become more proficient in writing using your own voice, I recommend you read your final draft out loud.
Sometimes hearing your words spoken aloud can help you identify places where they don’t flow or aren’t expressing your voice accurately.
2. Shake free from all those rules and regulations
You’ll be happy to know that you will not be graded on your work. There are no roaming bands of English teachers hovering over your content with their red pens.
Oh sure, it’s wise to follow standard usage, but that’s mostly because it’s the best way to ensure you’re understood.
And yes, your helpful readers may occasionally point out an embarrassing gaffe. You’ll survive. A quick edit plus a click on the update button and your mistake will disappear.
Those rules you dutifully followed so you could get decent grades in your English classes can be loosened up to allow for greater self-expression.
So go ahead and write conversationally: End your sentence with a preposition. Go crazy and italicize words for emphasis. Add an ellipsis if it helps build suspense …
3. Stand on the foundation of your expertise and experience
There’s nothing more delicious than attending a get-together with friends and having someone ask you about the topic you’ve obsessively studied for years.
They seem genuinely interested. They ask probing questions. And you have the opportunity to wax poetic about your most-loved subject for a full 10 minutes.
You don’t stumble over what to say. You don’t put on airs or pretend to be someone you aren’t.
Your words flow effortlessly because when it comes to this particular topic, you’re a natural authority.
When you write from a place of comfortable mastery — whether you’re still a beginner or you’re a certified expert — your voice shines through as confident, unforced, and authoritative.
4. Step out from the shadow of the writers you admire and write it your way
If you find yourself trying to mimic the style of a writer you admire, you’re not alone.
Even the most experienced writers — the ones you may try to emulate as you write — have writing heroes. It’s not a bad thing.
One thing that unites truly great writers is that they have written enough to peel back the layers of imitation that might have grown around them. They write from a place deep inside that doesn’t sound like anyone else.
The only way to find this place is to write.
It’s only through writing — a lot — that you’ll find a voice that you own 100 percent.
To find your own quirky voice, write. Then write some more.
Be loud and proud, and don’t be afraid to share who you are
Sameness is the enemy online. We’re all fighting a battle for eyeballs, attention spans, and brain space.
How can you stand out?
- Tap into the quirky traits that make you who you are. What are they? Write them down.
- Emphasize these traits in your work: both in the voice you write with and the way you present yourself on social media.
- Serve up your unique voice consistently over time.
It may take some work to find what’s unique about you and your business. And it will take some practice to feel comfortable expressing it.
But when you make the effort, you’ll see the payoff.
Want to get attention and keep it? Embrace your quirkiness!
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Reader Comments (26)
Magda says
Beautiful article, Pamela. True and definitely a must read for those who need to embrace their quirkiness, don’t know what to do with it or who still need to accept it. To find that unique voice is to (try) give life to what’s meant to be.
Pamela Wilson says
Thanks so much, Magda. I agree! It can be incredibly fulfilling to identify your voice and find a way to share it consistently.
Heidi Cohen says
Pamela– I love this post. It hits some of the main points writers, bloggers and content creators need to know.
In particular, once you’re out of school you don’t have sit down and write your post from beginning to end. Have an outline and start where the energy is.
The other point is that you have to write A LOT. I would also add consistently so that it’s a habit. It’s not a matter of waiting for inspiration but as Stephen King says getting up and going to work.
Happy marketing,
Heidi Cohen
Pamela Wilson says
Thanks, Heidi.
Your comment, “you don’t have to sit down and write your post from beginning to end” is so important. Writing this way — from top to bottom — can feel like a drag. But tackling the part you’re most excited about writing first is a wonderful way to build momentum!
Jaime A. Heidel says
I’m a proud weirdo. It’s my platform. But, I think I could make it shine even more. Thanks for the great advice!
Pamela Wilson says
Go, Jaime! 🙂
Neno says
Although I agree that it is important to stand out we shouldnt underestimate a simplier strategy.
Find something that works and then improve relentlessly.
It is not easy to be original and sometimes it is even impossible.
Neno
Brian Clark says
Those two approaches are not mutually exclusive. 😉
Chris Thompson says
Great post! This teaches business people to embrace who they are as a person. We should let our work compromise our personality but rather we should let our personality affect our work in a better way. Keep up the good work and I wish you all the best.-Chris Thompson
Pamela Wilson says
“Embracing who you are as a person” is step 1 and communicating that through your content is step 2. Glad you enjoyed it — thanks for stopping by.
Natalie Smithson says
It takes so much more effort to hide who you are than to embrace it, warts and all.
I also agree with Heidi on writing: “Have an outline and start where the energy is.” This will be the part that truly shines.
Pamela Wilson says
I love that advice, too, Natalie. There’s no reason we have to write in a linear fashion … as long as it all gets done, who cares?
Margarita Papica says
I love this post. It’s a great reminder that being authentic is the best way that you can be heard. Thank you for sharing Pamela.
Janine says
Love, love, LOVE this – I swear, ever since I’ve embraced my quirkiness and started writing with my real voice, things have really shifted. My writing is better, I’m meeting amazing people, I’ve got wonderful like-minded clients… and I feel happy. I feel like me.
Pamela Wilson says
Readers can tell when the “real you” is coming through … no surprise that yours have responded. Thanks for sharing your success with this, Janine!
Sunni says
I think it’s a mistake to not keep in mind who you are talking to when you show your quirkiness. There’s also ample writing in the fields of group communication re the importance of fitting in with the group you want to work with. On the other hand, writing in a manner that not only convinces the reader of your expertise but also displays your human warmth is always preferred.
Let’s not forget that the world has never seen the powerful, deep-pocketed, and now largest market that is the Boomers. Are they techy? Of course they are. Computers came on the scene 34 or so years ago; the internet 20 years ago.
About writing
I told my university students that the rules and guidelines for grammar, syntax, punctuation, spelling, flow, sentence length, paragraph length and more existed for one reason and one reason only. That reason is to assure that what you mean from what you write is what is understood in the mind of the reader, a mind that sits down to read with filters and biases present.
Misspelling, grammar and other errors distract readers, changing their focus to the technical aspect of writing rather than the content. A conversational style is far more fluid than expository writing but there is much to be learned from feature writing using journalistic style.
All of this reminds me of the meme:
Let’s eat, Grandpa.
Let’s eat Grandpa.
Correct punctuation can save lives!
Pamela Wilson says
Great comment, Sunni. Thank you.
Leonie Burmeister says
Fantastic to hear.
I am always tempted to be a little otherwise.
I luv it when people luv stuff?
Alex says
Love this post! Some very helpful tips that I hope to use in my blog and any other writing endeavour I embark on. Thanks!
Jupiter Jim says
I love this post and here’s why: I love following blogs about WordPress and Online Marketing. Lot’s of good writers with lots of great advice. People who are really good at what they do. Most keep it to just business. You have NO idea what they do for fun. What their friends or family are like. What their life is like when they are not writing or promoting their blog posts, etc. So when someone actually does let us all get a glimpse into what the person’s life is like when not on the Internet, they become more interesting and someone you are more likely to follow because they are more likely to connect with you as a human being.
Thanks again,
Jupiter Jim
Pamela Wilson says
Thanks, Jim. I believe that the combination of speaking with authority but also with some personality helps make your website (and business) memorable. 🙂
Tom Bentley says
Pamela, yes, and sometimes it feels so ding-dang good just to let that quirkiness out! Many businesses, small and large, are finding that more conversational (and sometimes even goofy—Geico comes to mind) engagement with customers is so much more effective in keeping those customers around, and interested.
I just wrote a blog post on how Warren Zevon was beloved by songwriters, and by his moderate but rabid fan base because he let his oddball personality and attitude fly in his weird, humorous, wacky songs. He’s been gone for years, but his work lives on, for the originality of its expression.
Pamela Wilson says
Well there you went and said “ding-dang,” Tom. It might be a first on the pages of Copyblogger. Quirkiness at its best. 😉
Love the examples you shared: Zevon and Geico are both memorable in completely different ways. Long live quirkiness!
Monny Tan says
Loved the piece Pamela
It hits some of the main points writers, bloggers and content creators need to know.
Great reminder that being unique is the best way that you can be heard.
Mon
James Head says
Great post! My Father was an ad guy (one of the Mad Men) back in the 1960s. He would always encourage his kids to be original and unique (especially at Hallowe’en when we just wanted the same boring store-bought costume so we could look like everybody else). Your message about being “unique” resonated with me. Thanks
Pamela Wilson says
Homemade Halloween costumes are the best! What a great way to encourage the “unique is best” mentality from an early age.
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