When I first started out as a business owner, marketing my freelance copywriting services, I was very aware of my biggest constraint: I was a lousy salesperson.
When I was a kid, I had a hard time selling raffle tickets to my own grandmother.
And all the books I was reading said that I had to be a “natural salesperson” or I couldn’t be successful in business.
So, let me cut to the chase: That is completely wrong.
However.
You do need to understand how selling works if you want your business to thrive — whether it’s a big organization or a one-person show.
Yes, you can hire sales professionals, but you can’t outsource the fundamentals of creating an environment where people feel inclined to buy from you.
It’s your job to figure out what makes people buy the kind of thing you have to offer.
And that’s absolutely something you can learn. You don’t have to be “born” understanding how selling works, any more than you have to be “born” knowing how to play the piano, or “born” knowing how to ski. Some people take to those activities more quickly, but all of us can learn them.
No school like the old school
I decided to fix my deficient skills by studying traditional sales experts like Zig Ziglar and Jeffrey Gitomer, then figuring out how I could make their advice my own.
People often make a distinction between “selling” and “marketing,” but I follow John E. Kennedy’s definition of marketing and advertising as “salesmanship in print.” (Or pixels, as the case may be.)
So instead of making cold calls or face-to-face visits, I create words on web pages that act as my salespeople.
Reading the advice of these sales trainers and ad men, I discovered that good selling isn’t about trying to pressure anyone. It’s about helping people bridge the gap between what they have and what they want.
One of my favorite “old school” pieces of advice was articulated by Bob Burg:
“All things being equal, people will do business with, and refer business to, those people they know, like, and trust.”
Smart salespeople know how to create that “know-like-trust” response in a few moments of interaction. On the web, we pursue the same goal by constructing an environment that cultivates those responses.
Creating an environment where selling can happen
Good, relevant, and strategic content is one of the best ways to construct that kind of sales-friendly environment.
It lets you attract new people to your business or project, then gives them an enjoyable place to hang out while they get comfortable with you.
Smart content lets your prospects educate themselves about what you have to offer, so that when they do decide to buy, they know they’re making a wise choice.
Getting to know you
It’s a cliché that we’re living in an age of astonishing technological change.
The mobile phone in your pocket has more computing power than NASA used to land astronauts on the moon.
And with the internet, you have a communication tool of equal potency. The internet connects us to people all over the globe, far more than we could ever meet face to face, and allows us to have complex, rich interactions.
The trick is to be interesting enough that people want to know more about you.
Given all of their options — the endless stream of content shared on Facebook, LinkedIn, Medium, Pinterest, Instagram, and a hundred other platforms — what is it about your content that attracts someone and gets them to want to know you better?
As you’re building your sales-friendly content environment, think about ways people can get to know you once they’ve found your site.
- What are you all about?
- What products and services do you offer?
- What’s different about your approach?
- How about your free content — is it worth their time?
- What can you help them with?
- What kinds of problems do you solve?
Getting to like (or love) you
As we’ve seen over and over with YouTube celebrities, just because your audience knows you doesn’t mean they necessarily like you.
If you want to rack up views of people watching you eat detergent capsules, attention might be enough. But if you’re actually selling something, attention is just the beginning.
There are so many small businesses today. Most of us have become spoiled — we see no reason to do business with anyone we don’t like.
Except our internet providers. We’ve got a ways to go on that one.
If you aren’t an internet provider, your customers actually have to like you.
Liking comes, in large measure, from shared values. Red or blue? Big or small? Do you love dogs, the planet, your flag and country, babies, justice, equality, freedom?
Your values and beliefs are a big part of how we decide whether or not we like you.
In the fragmented culture of the early 21st century, there’s no position you can take that will make everyone like you, so don’t try.
You can be applesauce (most people like it okay). Or you can be kimchee (a lot of people hate it, but the ones who love it are passionate about it).
Applesauce worked reasonably well for 20th-century sales and marketing.
In the 21st century, you need to be kimchee.
Getting to trust you
Even if your audience loves you, that doesn’t automatically translate to trust.
We can connect with millions of other people all over the globe. And, if we’re bad people, we can scam them.
Facts that aren’t facts, people who aren’t people. We live in a Philip K. Dick world that might not quite be a dystopia, but it has its dangers.
Here’s another old-school sales maxim:
The confused mind does not buy.
Our smartphone-carrying, pseudo-sophisticated selves are driven by a Paleolithic, predator-obsessed brain that’s watching all the time for threats.
As soon as your potential buyer gets nervous or confused, she’ll stop dead in her tracks and wait to see if she can sort the situation out.
And then something else will catch her interest, and she’s gone.
To create the trust needed to complete a transaction, your message must be perfectly clear.
That means a clear call to action, a compelling benefit that you communicate well, and website design that’s easy to navigate and understand at a glance.
You also need to send plenty of signals that you’re one of the good guys. Everything from your guarantee to a Better Business Bureau badge to your social media following sends a signal of safety.
Customers won’t complete any transaction with you (even an email opt-in) if they don’t feel safe.
Selling doesn’t stop there
There’s more to selling, of course, than creating an environment where prospects know, like, and trust you.
But if you don’t create that environment, the most brilliant sales and marketing techniques in the world are going to underperform for you.
So start there — and check in regularly to make sure you’re still creating an environment that’s friendly to sales.
How about you?
Do you consider yourself a good salesperson? Have you ever thought about sharpening up those skills?
Let us know in the comments. 🙂
Reader Comments (7)
Michael LaRocca, Technical Editor says
One thing I like to tweet from time to time is “If your business model relies on your customers’ ignorance, you suck.” Blunt but true. Bob Burg hasn’t retweeted me yet, but I bet he’s been tempted.
Hashim Warren says
I’m pretty good at creating “know, like, trust” but the last step, the offer is my Achilles heel.
Back when my wife was my girlfriend I planned an elaborate and expensive proposal. I had her friends come from out of town, I purchased a diamond ring from Tiffany, and I booked an entire floor at a restaurant in Tribeca. I pumped up the excitement, erased all fears, and was pretty clear on what I wanted – lifelong commitment and love.
When I make marketing offers I’m totally different. My proposals are more like mumbled suggestions during a date. If you frown, or take time to think, or aska question, I say “hey, forget it, let’s catch this movie”. ?
Like you Sonia I wanted to get better at salesmanship, so I went back and studied what makes a solid offer. I wrote about it this week on LinkedIn. Click on my name and it will take you directly to the post.
Sonia Simone says
Ha, that sounds familiar! I love that story. 🙂
Saksham Kumar says
“All things being equal, people will do business with, and refer business to, those people they know, like, and trust.”
I really like this quote. It is so true that if we as marketers are not able to connect with our customers, or build trust, then it is very difficult to do business with them.
Emenike Emmanuel says
Hi Sonia,
This is deep. There’s still more one can learn from some of these traditional sales experts that ever walked this planet.
Tom Hopkins and Zip Ziglar are men whose decision works are worth reading.
Cheers.
Emenike
Ege Sarisenoglu says
I believe sales does not have to sound so scary as long as the product or service you provide for the people will really benefit, you got to believe in it 100 percent. If that is the case the energy you convey to the people will be whole lot of different becauase you are gonna vibrate at such a high frequency of caring and understanding and altruism that they will feel you.
Then all the issues about trust, connection and altruism will be automatically resolved because you have already put yourself in the position to succeed by tapping into a higher power, which is not to make the sale but to inspire the person or make an impact in her/his life. So the critical factor I believe is the right mindset or psychology of finding the hot spot of where you can tap into a higher “power” or “service” with your product. Once you are convinced about it all by yourself, every single other point will be handled cause you will sell 100 percent more authentically :))))
Hashim Warren says
I seem to work the opposite way. The more I believe in the product or service, the more anxiety I have about the offer.
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